The fetish that started it all Time Stop exposure with London and Kody

 My journey with telling Embarrassed Naked Exposure stories began with erotica. The idea of someone being exposed from being stripped while frozen in time had been a fantasy bouncing in my head for a while. A demon who stripped bullies of their clothes was a concept that resonated well with the community on DeviantArt and that spiraled into writing fanfiction, which spiraled into publishing and being published in erotica, and now filming embarrassed exposure content. When London and Kody Evans visited two months ago, one of the stories I wanted to tell was a Time Stop Exposure story, which is what led to filming Time for Revenge on the Sorority Bullies A Time stop Embarrassed Underwear story

 

 With the complexity of setting up the superhero stripping gags in Spiderwoman vs Supergirl, which takes longer to film because of the need to start/stop filming to set up each gag, I needed a more straight-forward story to film in order to stick to time. Time stop clips can be done in a few ways, often times where the person is filmed stripping the person frozen in time, as Violet and I did in Shego Stripped to Her Tightey Whiteys. Another way Time Stop stripping can be told is from the perspective of the person being frozen, in which one moment they think they are clothed and then the next moment they aren't. One show that effectively did this was the Simpsons when Bart and Milhouse strip homer naked after freezing time.

 

 

This is the approach I wanted to take with this time stop clip as it's easier to shoot and I like the contrast of a clothed/unclothed transition. This is because the audience and the character both have a brief delay in processing that the person is stripped of their clothes, giving off a nice reaction before they cover up. My time stop story was written in the spirit of revenge, most of the characters stripped are humiliated because they were bullies in some way. Creating two bully characters led me to picking college as the setting. College has its own history of hazing in sororities and fraternities, using humiliation as a form of initiation. Haze Her was a former (or current?) series where actors portrayed sorority bullies making pledges strip naked and do humiliating acts. Being that humiliation is a commonality in these organizations, I saw it as an ideal premise for this story and who could be better bullying than London and Kody?

Much of the content London and Kody film are bullying/domming type clips in which they are humiliated or they humiliate the other person with wedgies, stuffing food down their pants, wrestling them, or making them smell their feet. I knew they would be great at playing sorority presidents bullying pledges, but I didn't anticipate how good they'd be at improvising for over 10 minutes verbally humiliating non-existent off camera sorority pledges. When the fraternity is stripped of their clothes, London and Kody take it up a notch with some great jokes mocking their exposed penises, all in the spirit of teasing as a roast-type style of humor. Honestly, if being bullied POV is your thing this section alone is worth buying. What was most enjoyable about editing this part was how natural these roles fit with London and Kody, they also did well playing off of each other. I know the exact lines I wanted them to hit to move the story along and without any preparation, both of them did amazing playing off each other and responding to their cues to tell a story.

When the stripping section begins, both of them did well humiliating and laughing at each other as their embarrassing underwear is exposed. As I've mentioned previously, embarrassed exposure stories are very simple, the whole idea limited to maybe 30 seconds before the peak moment is reached. That both London and Kody were able to play out embarrassment for over 9 minutes highlights how good they are at embarrassment clips. They acted a range of emotions from being horrified, embarrassed to shifting attention in mocking the other person for their embarrassing underwear, bullying each other in the process. It was real special to watch their chemistry in seeing how comfortable they are working together.

Perhaps the most enjoyable part was when they switched their tough bully role to being pouting, whimpering, timid daughters of the Dean, insisting they are innocent good girls after they get tied up in their underwear on college campus. Role reversal is a trope I like to use a lot in embarrassed exposure stories because it's as much about stripping the person of their status as it is about stripping their clothes, this doesn't work if we don't believe London and Kody were tough, dominating, bullies early on but because their performance was so good, it makes the ending a great embarrassed exposure moment. From a humiliation standpoint this was a highlight because I actually got to incorporate dunce caps as part of their public humiliation, a trope that gets highlighted in one of my favorite books on humiliation, Enough to Make You Blush.

 

We hope you enjoy Time for Revenge. Some folks are not thrilled that it is not a full embarrassed naked video, but many others, myself included, enjoy embarrassed underwear exposure as some view it as more embarrassing than nudity. This clip is in 1080p or you can also get it in 4k

Back to Bondage by tying and stripping a police captain

Embarrassment and Exposure has so many different flavors as a fetish and even before the terms ENF/ENM were generated, I feel like there were other fetishes that depicted images of people humiliated from being stripped of their clothes and tied in a way that exposes them. Rope bondage and Damsel in Distress fetishes have been around for years and one thing that I always appreciated with rope bondage was how a simple tie (or not so simple tie) could be used to create a wonderful embarrassment scene. Which led me to casting Kody Evans as the bossy Police Captain in Police Captain Bound and Tied in her Disney Panties.

 

 

If you remember in my last post, the day Kody flew in to film with me was the unfortunate day that was the record breaking coldest day in Michigan. How cold? Apparently it gets so cold in some parts of Michigan it can cause trees to crack so loud it sounds like a gunshot and sounds as if an earthquake is happening. So needless to say, some of Kody's other plans changed and we had some extra time available to shoot. As a Taurus, I am used to planning ahead, like waaaaaay ahead, months, sometimes two months, in advance. Since filming fetish content, I've had to learn to be more flexible in that, some last minute things happen - models need to cancel, a camera falls and breaks, or Kody asks me if I want to book more time for an extra video. Luckily, because I have a lot of ideas I log throughout the week, I had this story in my folder that had actually been scheduled several times before. I always like to showcase my bondage work and this was a great chance to do so.

Having learned some things from shooting Exposing the Senator's Hypocrisy , I know I needed to find a better device to keep the camera steady for moving shots. With Rope Bondage videos, often times they are long videos where there are long sequences of the model struggling in ropes, with different angles capturing close-up shots of the rope and also whole body shots of the tie. I learned some of this from I-Love-Rope-Bondage 's videos. I wanted a simple story in terms of very few transitions from different settings so that most of the focus could be on the rope tie - and the embarrassment and exposure :).

The police stripped of their uniform trope is something I did before, but this was actually a callback to scene in The Republic of Doyle in which the police officer Patricia Isaacs gets stripped of her uniform and tied up.

 

 

 

I love the quick back to back cut of her clothed and unclothed. the humor of her colleague asking what happened and we hear her say "what do you think?" keeps the tone light and humorous as is in the mood of my videos. 

This was the second video we shot because I didn't know how much time it would take to tie Kody. I always go over safety with the model, asking them about any mobility issues/injuries I need to be aware of, as well as safety precautions like safety shears to use if I need to get them out immediately. I'm used to shooting scene after scene in quick succession and with rope, that adds time to an already packed day of shooting. There are quite a few different ways to tie someone to a chair, I've seen most of them with models sitting in the traditional way with ropes tied around their ankles an legs and hands tied behind the chair. I wanted to do something a bit different, adding some more bend to the pose by tying her legs in a bent position, with ankles tied to the chair and then using a criss-cross tie across her waist while her arms were tied behind the back of the chair.

 Once she was tied, I knew the next challenge would be shooting a long-cut of her struggling. Typically videos like his can run from 10 minutes or more. I thought maybe we could shoot for 15 minutes, which Kody was game for. My attention span however, was not and to Kody's credit I ended up cutting at the 10 minute mark while she was still willing and able to go for longer. By that time I felt I had enough footage. The other thing I needed to remember is that this was an embarrassed and exposed clip, not rope bondage solely, which means we had to get to the embarrassment part. 

I will say shooting rope bondage was fun because it was so cool to watch Kody in editing and see all of the acting choices she made. She knew how to act out the embarrassment the captain had in choosing her embarrassing Disney panties on the same day she had to strip and be tied up, as well as coming up with different ways to struggle, kicking her legs, sawing her arms against the chair, there's even a moment that she tried to hop free, which I didn't remember seeing when we shot. Rope bondage in general is a practice about patience and being present in the moment. Unlike impact play where you get to constantly do something like swing a toy, rope bondage is a lot of start, stopping, and pausing to let the rope bottom explore the sensation of being tied up. Kody did amazing work capturing her own sensation of being tied up in this video. 

 The other thing I wanted to keep in mind was sustainability. I wanted Kody to feel comfortable (well...as comfortable as she could) while struggling. The important fact about rope bondage is you are tying a person, it's not about the pretty shape, the priority is that they leave the scene being okay. With this, i wanted to choose and arm binding tie that would give her some space to maneuver her arms. the rope cuffs are actually singular cuffs tied around each arm, rather than what you might see in a strappado where a cuff is tied around both arms.

                                                  Ariel Anderssen tied in Exposing the Senator's Hypocrisy
 

The other reason I wanted to make sure the ties were sustainable was because we had another video to shoot after that (Poison the Embarrassed Naked Street Fighter) and so I wanted to make sure we didn't do anything too strenuous before moving onto the next video. The end of the video also got to touch on my other favorite part about embarrassment, when underwear is more embarrassing than being naked, to which Kody demands her police team take her underwear before the press arrive. She did some great embarrassed poses to wrap up the scene and so I hope you enjoy this little step outside of the typical silly (but still silly) embarrassed and exposed video by watching this rope bondage video. You find this on c4s, IWC, Loyalfans (subscribers can buy it 15% off). Because I'm transitioning my store from Manyvids, it can also be bought on Yourvids, plenty of spots to pick it up so check it out!

 

 

How Platonic Friendship Evolved into Exposing Ourselves on Film

 

Today marks the day a bonus video, Demon Humiliates a Cum Faerie in her Princess Panties gets released. It features myself as the Demon and my long time, closest friend and play partner, Ly Lyra. I think everyone at one time gives thought to the idea of having sex on camera. It's not something I ever thought would be serious or likely to happen, at least not until I began shooting ENF films. I always thought it might be fun to do, but my real job would make it hard to do so, thus requiring me to wear a mask. I didn't think it would ever happen because I value my professional relationship with the models I work with and do not ask about any sex scene because it would impact the trust we have in our working relationships, it also makes an assumption that they want to which I do not want to make. 

So when Ly asked to do a humiliation scene with me, wanting to be ravished and embarrassed, I knew they post their own pictures on their OF and thought, this could be a special moment to capture an embarrassment scene on film to share with their fans as well as y'all. So what made me change my mind? Ly is someone I felt safe being naked on camera with, even with my own insecurities about my body and sex from my own past traumatic moments. This trust doesn't happen overnight, it is something that developed over time. We've known each other for over a decade, being close friends who also enjoyed casual sexual . Ly is someone who also helped me grow from a social justice perspective, helping me think critically about systems of oppression across capitalism, ableism, misogyny and racism. We also supported each other during our own rough times. Our own paths in grad school had us move away from each other, but we kept in touch. Every time we reunited it was a joyful moment in reconnecting and filling each other's cup with our love and positive energy. 

Ly was one of the first play partners I got to explore kink with. I still think fondly of those moments, it was  a powerful, hot energy where we both enjoyed mixing elements of impact play with sex. I also loved the communication we engaged in throughout, discussing what safe words we wanted to use and aftercare to make sure we were both okay.Years later, when they visited the states again, they were the first person I got to tie after I began my rope practice. Again, this was a groundbreaking moment in kink for me because I got to see the power and magic of tying someone up, both of us conjuring an intimate closeness while creating visually stunning art. 

 

With each kinky scene we created together, we would check about what we liked about the scene, what we found fulfilling about it and more importantly, how every scene strengthened our connection. I felt safe with Ly, expressing my dominant, sometimes bully-ish mean side, and also showing my naked body to. I also felt safe with Ly as a play partner because I know they would be honest in discussing what they are and not okay with. Because we felt safe with each other, we both agreed with filming our play scene together, which is what led to the video we shot. this would still come with a lot of anxiety and intimidation with shooting a sex scene and it was also exciting.

 A point of connection for embarrassment play with Ly was panty play, which as you all know is my favorite. This may have started last year when in about to play with Ly, they realized the underwear they had on was something they legitimately felt embarrassed being seen in. The natural feeling of embarrassment while we played was something they found exciting as much as it was embarrassing for them.

 

 

Posted with permission 

 I had just the cute pair I wanted them to wear for our scene. They wanted to act as a fairy, the idea is having a Demon rip off their wings before ravishing them. That was the concept and with that I added a script with some ENF elements, exposing the faerie in cute, polka dotted, princess panties. In terms of sex acts we negotiated, the idea of cumming on them appealed to me and that's where the term "Cum fearie" came up. With this premise, we had a beginning, middle, and end, stripping, dry humping, and cumming. So what was actually going to happen then for the scene itself?

 This is where one of my biggest challenges was, trusting the creative process and not planning. I'm someone who is used to planning a lot, from ordering costumes a month in advance, to planning out the shots and the script in my head. I was able to do some of that, I know the room I wanted to use, I knew the angle I wanted to use, but i wasn't sure how my own body wold handle being on camera, aware that I was being filmed while I also had to act as a mean Demon who spanks the faerie into submission before doing a sexual act that is very goal focused.Not only that, i had to make sure we were in frame so that we were on camera. Sex is an intimate, special act, that can be impacted when my anxiety brain kicks in. So shooting a sex scene involved a lot of multitasking - making sure the camera s were running, staying present to enjoy the moment, also listening to Ly to make sure they were okay, making sure I could hear their safe words if they said them. Adding to this was the mask I wore which blocked some of my vision. This definitely impacted how I tie rope because I was less able to check the length of my tails. I knew shooting porn wasn't as easy as it looked, but it was an interesting and fun experience. As with many kink scenes, this scene will stand out for me for years to come, because even though I was keeping track of the cameras, Ly''s reactions, and making sure I was staying in character, I was present the entire time. I was doing the thing I love most - Topping kinky humiliation with spanking, rope, and verbal humiliation, and we got to capture it on film for everyone to see. Ly and I didn't have a beat-by-beat setup of what we were going to do, we listened to each other's energy, I loved how I used a simple tie, using it to pull Ly close when I needed or to push them down, alternating between groping them, spanking them, or gagging them with my fingers. 

 We both are very proud of this video. What I like most about it is it captures things in kink that I find hot - stripping, embarrassing panties, spanking, rope, and I got to share it with someone I love. It's special to me because I think it's a good reflection of me and my relation to kink. I know sex and raunchier forms of it are not everyone's preference with embarrassment and exposure. I do like it from time to time, and in my view, I saw this as making an ENF video but a more personal touch as I"m exposing to you all parts of my I otherwise would keep private - my body, and my relationship with others. For those who do buy this video, we hope you like it, we are quite proud and very lucky to get to fuck because we find each other hot. I also want to wish Ly a Happy Birthday and many thanks for your friendship, your wisdom, and your kind, radical heart. Without you I don't think I would have had the connection to my sex magic that I am flourishing with now, so I honor and appreciate that you're in my life. If you don't follow Ly, change that now and subscribe to their OF and give them a kind gift as they have blessed me with theirs. 

Filming a real humiliation scene with Violet

Today I'm happy to release the video that is a bit more personal in that, it is something that portrays something very important in my life and that is kink. Violet and I were excited to show you Punishing the Nun's Hypocrisy: A Humiliation Scene. I have been in the lifestyle sine 2011 and whenever I wasn't writing erotica, drawing ENF art, or making films, I have been and am actively involved in my kinky community. If you follow my newsletter (check your spam folders if you haven't been getting them!), then you may have heard me talk about how kink has been central to my growth, helping me learn to be a better communicator and also expanding my own emotional and artistic growth. Violet Vixen and I were friends before we made films together, and have enjoyed the pleasure of doing scenes at events. 

When I debuted my mask on Instagram, Violet had reached out asking to do a scene together. Initially, I thought it would be a scene in private but then I thought that this could be an opportunity where we could enjoy a scene together and also showcase what a humiliation scene could look like. I have previously written on the complex, diverse way humiliation and embarrassment can be utilized in a scene. Beyond stripping someone of their clothes, there can be other elements of embarrassment, humiliation, and shame. There can be verbal teasing or bullying, exposing someone's secrets that they'd be embarrassed if they were shown, or tapping into the way in which religion uses shame to enforce its values. 

 

With humiliation, I saw this as the chance for us to have fun including several of my favorite elements in kink - rope, impact play, and stripping. We wanted to have a slight horror element and with that in mind, I wanted to bring back Sister Francesca from the Embarrassed Naked Nun

I have seen several humiliation themed videos on Kink.com. There are mixed stories about how ethical they are in how they treat models as representation of kink. They showcase a preshoot interview where they negotiate what will be done in the scene and what the safe words are. It's not clear however, if the negotiation being shot is part of the scene itself or an actual negotiation. Kink.com has a lot of Public Disgrace scenes, which sways on the side of humiliation/degredation than embarrassment. I have found myself less into the more degrading aspect of the scene than I enjoy the beginning where the person is stripped of their clothes and acts embarrassed. It was this tone that Violet and I had in mind when we talked about shooting a long scene. I wanted something that would be more kink-focused, but also enjoyable for an Embarrassed and Exposed audience as I get feedback that they are not as interested in the more kink heavy aspects of the genre.

The idea at the time was that my character would be more of a scary type figure. This of course was before we ended up making me a silly, cartoon trope in Shego Stripped to her Tighty Whiteys. My style with an actual humiliation scene is humorous. There was a period where I was a standup comic and what has stayed with me was my ability to roast someone in a teasing/bullying type of humor that works well with embarrassment and humiliation. Admittedly, I myself was nervous about being on camera for such a long time. As someone with my own personal experience with anxiety, perfectionism sometimes spills into that, making me trip up on my words or stutter or become hesitant. I was worried this might show up on camera as I played with Violet. This would definitely disrupt the perfectionist in me with editing and the thought of being so concerned about something not turning out "perfect" that I'd hesitate from posting was a worst-case-scenario fear that I knew I'd have to keep at bay.

 That did not happen however, because Violet and I have played several times before and so I felt comfortable being on camera because we had established trust and care for each other long before that. This is important in kink because when it works, as I think you'll see in this video, the players are fully present in the scene and time flies by because we're not in our heads thinking about "what if" anxieties, we're fully present, and that is what I find fulfilling about kink, when the magic is there, it is truly a mentally transformative experience where you can take on a role you otherwise might not embody in real life, and it gives your mind a sense of healing, purpose, and excitement to create something powerful. 

 In any scene, it is more complex than simply striking someone, tying someone up, or being tied or being hit. It is a risky practice, there is no way there is zero percent chance that harm could be done mentally or physically. That is why, it requires constant communication and constant check in throughout a scene. What you see is an edited video to tell a story, what you don't see is the safe words Violet and I negotiated before a scene, what we agreed would and wouldn't happen in the scene, and adjustments that needed to be made during the scene in terms of how intense things would be. In any scene, at any time, something can change and the previously planned scene might need to change. This can be due to someone's body experiencing pain or discomfort that was not planned or even a psychological trigger that requires ending the scene early. While safe words are one way to minimize risk of harm, sometimes that doesn't always work either. This is why it's also important to observe each other's nonverbal language, their facial expressions, an abrupt silence after they were talking a lot, or even a freeze response. We had to constantly monitor each other's and our own internal response to make sure it was safe to continue playing. The challenge for me was that the mask made it slightly more challenging to observe Violet's reactions, although I kept close watch the entire time while also staying in character.

 Violet did amazing work. Not only did she also have to act in character for the whole scene, she had to do so while in a position that over a long period of time was uncomfortable. The setup we chose was one that Violet felt most comfortable in for sustaining the pose for a long time. yet, even though she felt comfortable, over time, that pose with wrists tied to a hard metal pole while being flogged, caned, and spanked with a crop would add tension and more intense physical effort over time. Having been tied myself with the intent to hold a pose for a long period of time, by the end of ten even twenty minutes can be intense. Your body starts to shake, muscles are tense and you have to constantly check in with your tying partner to let them know if adjustments need to be made. So, big hats off to Violet for being able to sustain that pose, to sustain being spanked all while acting in what was a long-form improvised humiliation scene. There were was actually only once instance where we had to make adjustments to the intensity of the scene but otherwise, what you see is the scene that we shot in one take. A performance like this does not happen easily, but for us it did because of our long-term friendship and experience playing before.

 You may find Punishing the Nun's Hypocrisy a Humiliation Scene different from my other ENF videos. however, we hope you give it a shot and enjoy it as a representation of kink between two close friends who both share a love for celebrating the power of telling a story through rope, canes, floggers, and of course, exposure ;).