Wedgies - ENF's painful cousin and introducing Kody Evans

 

 

While it is my favorite form of embarrassment to strip someone naked, just because you have clothes on doesn't mean you can't be humiliated. Imagine you're wearing your best clothes to impress your crush. Now imagine someone sneaks up behind you, reaching into the back of your pants and pulls your underwear up. Not only are you in pain but now your crush sees your underwear too! Do you feel more or less embarrassed than if you were naked? What if your underwear was pulled over your head? What's more painful, the cloth pulling in between your butt or the wounded ego that someone got the best of you by pulling your underwear in the most painful ways possible? There's no better expert in this topic, than Kody Evans who I'm proud to release our firs time working together in Poison: The Embarrassed Naked Street Fighter Stripped, Cuffed, and Wedgied!

 

 Kody Evans is a model who has worked with many different studios, some including Cali Logan's. Kody specializes in a wide range of fetishes such as wrestling, feet, and wedgies. I've seen her give and take some painful looking wedgies. Wedgies are actually a common trope in embarrassed underwear clad female art often with the underwear being exposed from a wedgie. The cartoon version of the The Mask features a LOT of wedgie gags and effectively used it as peak humiliation in a comedic standpoint.

 I have wanted to include wedgies in my videos and have with Embarrassed Kombat and Shego Stripped to her Tightey Whiteys. The one reason I don't just put wedgies in things all the time is because there are health risks to wedgies. That's right if you google wedgie injuries, there are actually medical journals covering severe injuries from wedgies (TW). When I shoot with models involving rope, impact, or stunts, I do my best to ensure it is safe and can minimize injury, this includes wedgies. That's why when I reached out to Kody to see if she'd want to work with me and she said yes that I was eager to rely on her wedgie expertise to shoot some fun scenes.  Right before we shot together, Kody dyed her hair pink and that made me wonder, who is popular character that has pink hair?

 

 Okay so I'm not sure how widely popular Poison from Final Fight is, but she is popular from MY history as I used to put tons of time and quarters into the arcade playing the game. The idea of a street fighter, ahem, Street Fighter, battling tough gangsters made it a great opportunity for an embarrassed naked female sketch. This gag has been showcased in an embarrassed underwear-clad male sketch in Romeo Must Die where Jet Li pulls the belt off of one of the gang members and his pants fall, exposing him in a thong. This was the basis of my own art piece of Poison.

 

 

 This script was easy to write from a POV perspective. Poison would be a bully, badass Domme type who talks down to the Mad Gear Gang as well as the protagonists in the game. Because she is used to acting in Wedgie content, with wedgies being open to bully type characters, Kody was a natural acting as Poison. This was actually the last clip we shot for the day but you'd never tell. Watching this clip in editing was a joy to see Kody facing the camera and belittling the characters, threatening to wedgie Guy, mocking Cody's small penis, I 100% believed her to be the leader of the Mad Gear Gang. This made her humiliation that much more enjoyable.

 Kody has acted in ENF before although I haven't had the chance to see it in a full clip. She did fantastic embarrassed acting, maintaining the dichotomy of acting tough, dominant, and cocky and then switching to a pouty, whiny, humiliated woman with her shorts falling down, stripped naked, and in a handcuff wedgie! There's actually one improvised part she did that makes me laugh every time I see it.  Something Kody does that I liked was her outward dialogue talking through her embarrassment, from talking about how humiliating it is to be seen in her panties, to how futile it is to cover up because something else is exposed. It made for a great 20+ minute clip with two scenes of embarrassment and humiliation, ending with a wedgie that utilizes handcuffs! I couldn't wait to release Poison: The Embarrassed Naked Street Fighter Stripped, Cuffed, and Wedgied and I hope you enjoy the first of several videos with Kody Evans! She was a trooper having flown in during the record breaking coldest day in Michigan in a while and to my surprise, she is hoping to come back to shoot again so let us know your thoughts!

 

 

The Sound of Embarrassment - Using sound to tell an ENF story in A GI Joe ENF Parody

 With the release of GI Joe: Knowing is Half the Embarrassment, I learned some new insight into why I enjoy editing so much. It's finding ways of telling a story behind the script. Knowing is Half the Embarrassment is a story parodying the public service educational segments that would happen after each episode, which Devious Skunk was happy to give a lesson in survival.

 

I thought GI Joe would be  a fun enf parody because much of the way we view GI Joe is patriotism and praising a franchise that represents military and the United States. I think GI Joe portrays its characters as overly heroic, mainly as a means to selling the toys to kids, and in doing so, putting them in stories that are somewhat corny. Of course this came from an era of Saturday morning cartoons where they did want kids to learn lessons about being "good" and in this, a specific type of perfection that I love to strip away in an ENF script. Bushwack is loosely based off of the G.I. Joe character, Lady Jaye  who uses a spear as a weapon. Lady Jaye actually had her own embarrassed exposure moment in the cartoon. 

 

 This was the first video we shot before shooting Embarrassment of the Ring. I did this because my intent was for GI Joe: Embarrassment is Half the Battle a simple story in which much of the stripping would happen off camera through implication. The comedy in the stripping gags would occur through clothes being torn off camera by both bear attack and branches being ripped off. This would mean Skunk would be off camera acting as if she were losing her clothes from animal attack and being lost in the woods. You will see without surprise that she did this well, delivering some funny improvised dialogue about an inappropriate bear attacking her or panicking in a tearful frenzy as she gets lost in the woods. With each time watching the clip I continued to laugh as she plays up the over-dramatic fear and panic of being lost, which makes the scene that much funnier.

 This would have otherwise been a simple clip to edit being that there were only a few shots I spliced together. The true work was finding the sound effects to add more realism to what happens to Bushwack off camera. This included various sounds of a bear growling and snarling, funny sounds of a spear falling from the air, as well as my favorite, clothes ripping. The clothes rip effect is actually something I recorded with an old shirt I tore up. I did this after feeling limited by the ripping sound effects I found online. There are lots of different ways to tear clothes to get a different variation of sound and that was perhaps the most interesting part of editing this time, syncing the different length/intensity of a rip depending on the situation. A brief quick rip might make sense for the beginning, but then a longer, louder rip would be more fitting in the end to imply more clothes have been torn off. This gets challenging because it really requires to listen to find the perfect timing. Too long of a gap and the surprise and smoothness of storytelling is disrupted because the audience might think "did something happen with my audio?" If the effect comes too soon well then it ruins the surprise and doesn't really have the same effect. I don't know what it is, but I get the same joy and elation I get from getting a gorgeous shot as I do when the dialogue and sound effect match up at the same time. 

I also had a fun time finding sounds of bushes and twigs snapping as Bushwack gets lost in the woods. The direction was vaguely written in that, Bushwack would get lost in the woods. Everything you hear is Skunk improvising and every time I listen I laugh with how well she did building up the tension from a cocky, confident Bushwack to a scared, sniveling Bushwack. I wanted to start subtly with a few snapping sounds of trees. As she begins navigating through the woods was when I wanted to add more sounds of bushes and increase the frequency of snapping as she starts to get scared. Again, my favorite part is the sound of the clothing rips as it creates a vision of clothes being ripped off by accident, which as an erotica writer, is more effective in evoking the image of embarrassed exposure than if we had shot it ourselves. I actually got this idea from The Silmarillion in which the character Nienor is written to have wandered in the woods and have had her clothes ripped off by the end of her journey and is found naked. So, making an ENF clip based on Lord of the Rings wasn't completely random, Tolkien may have been an ENF fan too! 

 The final sequence with the "Laser-amo" was more straight forward in that I just needed a laser sound effect. I wanted this to be a drawn out stripping where Bushwack gets stripped bit by bit with each laser before ending up naked. It was also a fun moment to break the meta and have Bushwack mention "ENF." I thought it would work in this story because the perfect story for a lesson on embarrassed naked females would be in a lief lesson type setting as in G.I. Joe. I would like to do an ENF lecture series on well...ENF in the future, but this was a fun little nod to my favorite kink.  We hope you enjoy GI Joe: Embarrassment is Half the Battle  and continue to see Skunk's amazing talent in being a chameleon for portraying so many different characters.

 

 

  

Closing the year out with a Mortal Kombat ENF Sequel - an unespected surprise shoot full of kinky gags

As we reach the end of 2025, in a time when our access and rights to freely express our creative kinks through porn is threatened by Age verification laws, I am happy to release an ENF video with several kinky elements into one 20+ minute video that is Embarrassed Kombat 2!

 

After the success of the first Embarrassed Kombat , I knew it was a series I wanted to revisit in the future because there are so many possibilities for humiliation to occur in a fight. I have and still have ideas and I didn't expect to shoot a sequel so soon. So when Izzabella Robbins told me Elle McKenzie would be interested in shooting with me, I fired up my laptop and came up with a script to introduce two new characters to the Embarrassed Kombat universe. The basic framework of these stories is simple - a tough fighter trope eventually humiliated when exposed wearing (or not wearing) something that contradicts their badass image.

 

 

 

I common and real experience many folks have, including myself, is the fear of being exposed as disengenuine or a "fake." We like to believe how we portray ourselves in front of others is how we really are. There is also a lot of shame when someone is exposed for being disengenuine. Musicians being exposed for lip syncing, someone in a subgroup being labeled a "poser," these examples are real-life representations in which shame and embarrassment can occur and it's where I thought to introduce the trope of the movie actor turned fighter - Izzie Cage

 

 

Obviously this is based off of the Mortal Kombat character Johnny Cage, who from the first 1995 movie had a great backstory of an actor trying to prove he isn't a fake by entering a tournament. I had no doubts Izzie would nail this character and from the moment we started shooting, I was giddy seeing her in a leather jacket and sunglasses, acting cocky in her character select screen moment. I used to watch MMA and the idea of a fighter or a celebrity has been used to criticize people like C.M. Punk, who went from professional wrestling to MMA fighting and lost. This type of backstory enriches an ENF video because it heightens the stakes when Izzie gets stripped to her Hello Kitty panties in the middle of a fight. 

 

 While there is not a ninja domme character in Mortal Kombat, it is full of ninjas and I think we need more ENF for ninjas. I also like contrasting dominance with submission, often times stripping the dominant of their status and exposing a submissive side. Mistress Elle would be that character and as I wrote the story, the basic premise of a domme being stripped of her clothes who enjoys being spanked evolved into another humiliating moment, being a secret fan of the opponent she fought. With the story written, I was excited, and with a bit of anxiety, curious how shooting this would turn out.

 

The part that can be intimidating about shooting Embarrassed Kombat is it involves more physicality, even though the fight is choreographed. This is due to the fact that there are a LOT of planned shots in these clips, a bit more than I usually plan. Often times scenes are broken up in two shots, one of the model clothed and the other of them unclothed or there is an uninterrupted take of them stripping. With Embarrassed Kombat, the story is told through fighting as well as other video game mechanics, like the character select screen costume swap scene. Each one of those changes means there was a cut before setting up the next shot. One of the shots I was most proud of was the scene in which Elle whipped Izzies' phone out of her hand. I obviously didn't want Izzy to actually get hit by a whip, so I planned two shots - one with Elle swinging the whip at nobody and then a close-up of Izzy with the whip on her phone, that Elle would pull back giving the image of Izzy being hit. With some editing that shortened both shot, it is a cool action moment.

 

 

 

This was actually the first video we shot before we shot Resident Nudist , meaning it was the first time Elle got to explore ENF acting. If you're unfamiliar with ENF, it does take some time to get into the right mindset. It involves tapping into comedy and awkwardness because embarrassment is about stripping away a perfect-well-rehearsed-well-said-well-thought-out-pose. What was cool was seeing Elle get into character, best captured when she wedgies Izzy and teases her as she pulls on her panties. It was that fun playful energy that makes ENF a joy to shoot and captured the mood that I wanted to continue making with Embarrassed Kombat. 

 

I feel like beyond fatalities, what makes Mortal Kombat, and Street Fighter to a degree, so popular is the backstory of the characters and how much of a trope they tap into classic martial arts cinema. In doing this, fans enjoy playing their character and in a sense, this brings them to life. I truly appreciate Elle and Izzie's performances because when I watch the clip, I see the characters Izzy Cage and Mistress Elle squaring off and this is thanks to their ability to act vulnerable in being both silly and of course embarrassed. We hope you enjoy the second installment of the Embarrassed Kombat series and if you like it, know that there's plenty more ideas to come. 

Recreating the Lord of the Rings magic to make an ENF parody

 

You may have missed Skunk as it's been a hot minute since I released a video from her but fret not, that was because we shot a parody I had wanted to do since the beginning of my plans to shoot ENF films, a Lord of the Rings embarrassed naked female parody that would be called Embarrassment of the Ring.

 

 

There is a lot of potential within the vast Tolkien lore that can be used to make a great ENF clip between the use of magic, swords, and invisibility. I let this idea ruminate for a bit before I had the idea of an elf who would be stripped and humiliated. After the success of shooting Embarrassed Kombat , I also knew I had an outdoor space I had access to thanks to Skunk. I knew Skunk would be the ideal model to book because she has the talent of creating some fantastic costumes as a professional live performer in burlesque, circus, and other types of events.

 The original idea started with an Elf who would get stripped by an invisible Frodo. As fun as that would've been it didn't seem to be enough, it, like many enf ideas that start off was too simple and it also didn't make a whole lot of sense - why would Frodo, a character that is otherwise wholesome and good, want to strip an elf of her clothes? As I thought about the other plot devices in LOTR, Other forms of embarrassment showed up - a ring that makes one's clothes invisible and a Palantir that acts as a magic porn library for an Elf to perv on. Once I had these additional ideas, I was ready to write a script. Elves have a common trope associating them with being arrogant, cocky, and holier-than-thou than other characters. I used this to create another interesting quirk in the character, Surfeitia, that she would be from a race of Elves that pride themselves in not given into temptation...until they do.

 

 We shot this video after another parody that you will see in the future. When Skunk left to change into her elf wardrobe, I sent time planning out shots for the intro sequence. One thing that makes the LOTR so loved by people is the gorgeous outdoor shots in the film. The story is great and what also makes the movie experience so nice is the overhead shots of Middle Earth. I wanted to shoot something like this with the introduction and we had a vast forest area to play around in. I'm learning more about planning my shots ahead of time and saving time with capturing the exact image I want. It let me shoot more efficiently on this day. I want to continue making kinky ENF videos and I'm drawn towards capturing shots that have a more artistic, storytelling image to enhance the character. This in my opinion, makes a simple ENF idea a stronger story and video when time is spent building a universe for the character to immerse in. The montage sequence was important to create what would be something resembling Middle Earth. Because of this, I wanted to capture still photos of what was a special moment for me as a long time LOTR fan.

 What also made this clip amazing was that Skunk did outstanding work with the wardrobe, makeup, and props. Everything she wears was created herself, which included the Elf ears. I didn't even expect to see such a realistic sword prop to resemble the swords in LOTR but Skunk delivered above and beyond what I'd hoped for. I'm learning that although saving money is nice, spending money on lighting and especially costumes really sells a video when you truly believe in the existence of the character. 

 The choice in underwear is one of my favorite and sometimes hardest parts of making an ENF film. that's because there are so many options to choose from. I was very tempted to go with a fundoshi-like panty to resemble a loin cloth to stay in theme with the fantasy mood of LOTR. What led me to selecting that would be Tighty Whities with embarrassing messages on it was the other rule in ENF that I go by - silly is the mood of ENF as well as exposing embarrassing secrets. An elf who has a crush on both Aragorn AND Legolas would be more embarrassed in showing that off then simple loin cloth panties.

  

  

 

I'm glad I stopped to take the establishing montage shots before we began filming the story because once we start, I almost have tunnel vision with shooting efficiently to make sure we are on schedule and shooting the embarrassment stuff. Had we skipped the intro montage, I still think we would have a great ENF video that you all will enjoy and, with the added shots I have some gorgeous SFW images that I continue to look back on fondly.

 

What also made this story special was I got to see Skunk improvise more when we got to the sequence in which Surfeitia was pleasuring herself watching Legolas and Aragorn undress by watching the Palantir. What you see on camera is Skunk's improvised, erotic and yet very funny dialogue as her character pervs out watching her crushes undress. I gave her the simple direction that her character sees both Legolas and Aragorn undress but then she witnesses whatever kinky, sexy acts she wanted to see them do. Skunk actually shot this twice and both times she did an amazing job acting off the cuff, knocking the Palantir off the table before chasing it out in public. It's always a marvel to me watching models act off the cuff as it gives me the chance to witness their talent that makes them unique and I had no doubts Skunk would deliver a funny and erotic performance. Her embarrassed acting for this video are some top tier choices, the way she smiles nervously as she apologizes to Legolas and Aragorn portrays authentic embarrassment and shame for being caught doing something naughty. As in her first video, Officer Undressed

, there was a moment where I thought, "Is Skunk actually blushing?" you'll have to watch the video to find out.

 

Skunk and I are both LOTR fans and so this was less work and more of a labor of love in playing make-believe with a fantasy genre. I hope you give this video a watch and enjoy Skunk's performance.In light of what is happening with the anti-porn laws through Age Verification softward many platforms are adopting, Manyvids seems to have made this pushes towards SFW content and seems to want to "save" models from this line of work, which many are calling out as an arrogant assumption that people in this industry do not wish to get naked on camera, which is not true. So due to this, I'm encouraging you all to find this video on c4s, Iwantclips, or LoyalFans (Just follow no subscription necessary).

 

Seeing Old Friends and Meeting New Friends - Introducing Elle McKenzie to ENF

 Last month was a busy one for me shoot wise because unlike my typical pattern of shooting once per month, I had the luck of shooting twice in September when Izzabella Robbins was coming back to my neck of the woods looking to shoot. This time, she was bringing her friend, Elle McKenzie. Elle is a model who often acts in rope bondage scenes. Shortly after I heard they were both coming, another film producer I see in the community, I-Love-Rope-Bondage also told me about how great it was to work with Elle as a rope bondage model and that she had never acted in ENF before. I wasn't sure if Elle would be interested so I had three clips ideas, ones that could be used if Elle declined, and two that could be altered to include Elle as a character if she said yes, much to my delight she was on board for it and the race was on to prepare to shoot a video game parody I had in mind for almost a year, a Resident Evil parody that would become Resident Nudist.

 Resident Nudist was originally written as a POV solo model shoot in which the heroic police character would lead the survivor through a house of monsters only to be stripped and humiliated in embarrassing panties. Eventually she escapes but is naked. Although she is safe, she becomes frustrated at the commune because food, weapons, and supplies are not enough, she has sexual needs. This would lead her to finding one of the monsters and have sex with them, with an amusing end scene where she and the monster share a cigarette in bed right before they are caught.

Once Elle signed on, I knew there would be potential to make this more exciting with the addition of a scientist that leads the officer around advising her to take items. In the original game, you have to carry items to survive, some of them weapons, others are objects needed to unlock traps to get to the next stage. You have a limited amount of space to carry things and some of the challenge is figuring out what to let go. With this idea, I thought it would be a great way to have someone's pants fall down, wouldn't it be funny if in having to carry so many items, her pants would eventually surrender to gravity and fall, exposing her embarrassing underwear?

 Re-writing the script with two characters went by quickly and I loved the revision. I had a hunch that two models acting off of each other would be funnier than someone acting alone. Plus, who doesn't want to see two people get stripped and embarrassed? The biggest pain in the behind was costumes, more specifically finding embarrassing underwear. I had a lab coat and police outfit for Izzie and Elle, but finding embarrassing underwear for each video is a fun, but sometimes difficult, challenge because I do not want to buy from Amazon, Target, or Wal-Mart unless I absolutely have to. So Ebay is where I turn to and have had success in the past. Unfortunately, I've had a few instances where the item I ordered didn't arrive or in this case, was never actually shipped by the time Elle and Izzie would arrive. 

I was not worried because this was a minor issue. Since filming ENF I have had a collection of cute, embarrassing underwear for shoots. Luckily, Elle and Izzie are great to work with because they are also willing to help in this area. When they arrived they each had their own travel case full of costume choices, Elle even went out and bought some cute panties that would be a key part of the story - Lilo and Stitch panties! I don't require models to buy items if they do not have them, that's usually an expense I'll cover. I was pleasantly surprised and touched that Elle bought several items for the videos we planned to shoot that day and the idea of both characters being caught wearing Stitch underwear was an unplanned but very funny idea that we would use in jokes throughout the story.

 

 

If you're an ENF fan, you know that more times than not, you'll have to explain to someone unfamiliar with ENF what it is. It is a conversation I love to have but it is a little tricky to explain that while yes it is a kink that for many folks it is something they find arousing, the tone is meant to be more silly and funny than it is overly sexual. For models new to ENF, I've enjoyed directing them to find their comedic voice and capturing the embarrassed tone. I like it because every model's voice is different and their embarrassment acting is also different. For example, Izzy's improv skills are fantastic, she delivers dialogue in a no-nonsense, take charge way so that when her character gets stripped to embarrassing underwear, it portrays a great contrast with mocking her no-nonsense demeanor. Dr. Elle played a scientist who was kind and playfully mocked Izzy's cute Stitch underwear, as an NPC she unfortunately could only laugh at Izzy's embarrassing situation but couldn't carry any items herself. So when Dr. Elle finally gets stripped, her anger at Izzy is a complete 180 from her nice demeanor that I thought was a great embarrassing choice. Anger and embarrassment are actually two emotions that link quite well and seeing someone angry from being embarrassed is not something I often see, usually it's someone timidly covering up and begging for clothes, so it was awesome to see Elle develop her own ENF voice.

 

With Elle and Izzie having worked together before, it made for great onscreen chemistry. They riffed off each other well, I didn't need to do a lot of coaching with story dialogue, I would give them some general plot points and they would run with it. Their chemistry was so good, I actually ruined some takes because I couldn't stop myself from laughing at their jokes. I still laugh at some of their jokes and to me that is a great sign of a good ENF parody, it has to be silly in addition to the exposure. Dressing up as the tongue monster would also be part of the fun, the hardest part was not being able to see because the costume required two hoods to give me a blank face. Again, I didn't need to do a lot of acting because once Izzie grabbed me out of the closet and pinned me against the wall, I just let them riff while acting as if I was struggling to escape from the clutches of Dr. Elle and Officer Izzie looking for sexual gratification.

 

The tropes I wanted to pull from Resident Evil were stocking on items causing someone's pants to fall, Zombies and monsters ripping off clothes, and navigating through a creepy house with traps that would require people to strip naked. ENF is straight forward to shoot, the fun as a director is collaborating with models with the use of lighting, costume, props, to get a certain tone. Horror is one of my favorite movie genres and this was a blast to problem solve how to get lighting to reflect scary in an otherwise silly video. So if you're a fan of the Resident Evil franchise or a fan of ENF, give Resident Nudist a watch. Both Izzie and Elle knocked it out of the park and this was the second video we shot that night, meaning, you'll another one in the future. 

 

 

 

 

How Platonic Friendship Evolved into Exposing Ourselves on Film

 

Today marks the day a bonus video, Demon Humiliates a Cum Faerie in her Princess Panties gets released. It features myself as the Demon and my long time, closest friend and play partner, Ly Lyra. I think everyone at one time gives thought to the idea of having sex on camera. It's not something I ever thought would be serious or likely to happen, at least not until I began shooting ENF films. I always thought it might be fun to do, but my real job would make it hard to do so, thus requiring me to wear a mask. I didn't think it would ever happen because I value my professional relationship with the models I work with and do not ask about any sex scene because it would impact the trust we have in our working relationships, it also makes an assumption that they want to which I do not want to make. 

So when Ly asked to do a humiliation scene with me, wanting to be ravished and embarrassed, I knew they post their own pictures on their OF and thought, this could be a special moment to capture an embarrassment scene on film to share with their fans as well as y'all. So what made me change my mind? Ly is someone I felt safe being naked on camera with, even with my own insecurities about my body and sex from my own past traumatic moments. This trust doesn't happen overnight, it is something that developed over time. We've known each other for over a decade, being close friends who also enjoyed casual sexual . Ly is someone who also helped me grow from a social justice perspective, helping me think critically about systems of oppression across capitalism, ableism, misogyny and racism. We also supported each other during our own rough times. Our own paths in grad school had us move away from each other, but we kept in touch. Every time we reunited it was a joyful moment in reconnecting and filling each other's cup with our love and positive energy. 

Ly was one of the first play partners I got to explore kink with. I still think fondly of those moments, it was  a powerful, hot energy where we both enjoyed mixing elements of impact play with sex. I also loved the communication we engaged in throughout, discussing what safe words we wanted to use and aftercare to make sure we were both okay.Years later, when they visited the states again, they were the first person I got to tie after I began my rope practice. Again, this was a groundbreaking moment in kink for me because I got to see the power and magic of tying someone up, both of us conjuring an intimate closeness while creating visually stunning art. 

 

With each kinky scene we created together, we would check about what we liked about the scene, what we found fulfilling about it and more importantly, how every scene strengthened our connection. I felt safe with Ly, expressing my dominant, sometimes bully-ish mean side, and also showing my naked body to. I also felt safe with Ly as a play partner because I know they would be honest in discussing what they are and not okay with. Because we felt safe with each other, we both agreed with filming our play scene together, which is what led to the video we shot. this would still come with a lot of anxiety and intimidation with shooting a sex scene and it was also exciting.

 A point of connection for embarrassment play with Ly was panty play, which as you all know is my favorite. This may have started last year when in about to play with Ly, they realized the underwear they had on was something they legitimately felt embarrassed being seen in. The natural feeling of embarrassment while we played was something they found exciting as much as it was embarrassing for them.

 

 

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 I had just the cute pair I wanted them to wear for our scene. They wanted to act as a fairy, the idea is having a Demon rip off their wings before ravishing them. That was the concept and with that I added a script with some ENF elements, exposing the faerie in cute, polka dotted, princess panties. In terms of sex acts we negotiated, the idea of cumming on them appealed to me and that's where the term "Cum fearie" came up. With this premise, we had a beginning, middle, and end, stripping, dry humping, and cumming. So what was actually going to happen then for the scene itself?

 This is where one of my biggest challenges was, trusting the creative process and not planning. I'm someone who is used to planning a lot, from ordering costumes a month in advance, to planning out the shots and the script in my head. I was able to do some of that, I know the room I wanted to use, I knew the angle I wanted to use, but i wasn't sure how my own body wold handle being on camera, aware that I was being filmed while I also had to act as a mean Demon who spanks the faerie into submission before doing a sexual act that is very goal focused.Not only that, i had to make sure we were in frame so that we were on camera. Sex is an intimate, special act, that can be impacted when my anxiety brain kicks in. So shooting a sex scene involved a lot of multitasking - making sure the camera s were running, staying present to enjoy the moment, also listening to Ly to make sure they were okay, making sure I could hear their safe words if they said them. Adding to this was the mask I wore which blocked some of my vision. This definitely impacted how I tie rope because I was less able to check the length of my tails. I knew shooting porn wasn't as easy as it looked, but it was an interesting and fun experience. As with many kink scenes, this scene will stand out for me for years to come, because even though I was keeping track of the cameras, Ly''s reactions, and making sure I was staying in character, I was present the entire time. I was doing the thing I love most - Topping kinky humiliation with spanking, rope, and verbal humiliation, and we got to capture it on film for everyone to see. Ly and I didn't have a beat-by-beat setup of what we were going to do, we listened to each other's energy, I loved how I used a simple tie, using it to pull Ly close when I needed or to push them down, alternating between groping them, spanking them, or gagging them with my fingers. 

 We both are very proud of this video. What I like most about it is it captures things in kink that I find hot - stripping, embarrassing panties, spanking, rope, and I got to share it with someone I love. It's special to me because I think it's a good reflection of me and my relation to kink. I know sex and raunchier forms of it are not everyone's preference with embarrassment and exposure. I do like it from time to time, and in my view, I saw this as making an ENF video but a more personal touch as I"m exposing to you all parts of my I otherwise would keep private - my body, and my relationship with others. For those who do buy this video, we hope you like it, we are quite proud and very lucky to get to fuck because we find each other hot. I also want to wish Ly a Happy Birthday and many thanks for your friendship, your wisdom, and your kind, radical heart. Without you I don't think I would have had the connection to my sex magic that I am flourishing with now, so I honor and appreciate that you're in my life. If you don't follow Ly, change that now and subscribe to their OF and give them a kind gift as they have blessed me with theirs. 

Filming a real humiliation scene with Violet

Today I'm happy to release the video that is a bit more personal in that, it is something that portrays something very important in my life and that is kink. Violet and I were excited to show you Punishing the Nun's Hypocrisy: A Humiliation Scene. I have been in the lifestyle sine 2011 and whenever I wasn't writing erotica, drawing ENF art, or making films, I have been and am actively involved in my kinky community. If you follow my newsletter (check your spam folders if you haven't been getting them!), then you may have heard me talk about how kink has been central to my growth, helping me learn to be a better communicator and also expanding my own emotional and artistic growth. Violet Vixen and I were friends before we made films together, and have enjoyed the pleasure of doing scenes at events. 

When I debuted my mask on Instagram, Violet had reached out asking to do a scene together. Initially, I thought it would be a scene in private but then I thought that this could be an opportunity where we could enjoy a scene together and also showcase what a humiliation scene could look like. I have previously written on the complex, diverse way humiliation and embarrassment can be utilized in a scene. Beyond stripping someone of their clothes, there can be other elements of embarrassment, humiliation, and shame. There can be verbal teasing or bullying, exposing someone's secrets that they'd be embarrassed if they were shown, or tapping into the way in which religion uses shame to enforce its values. 

 

With humiliation, I saw this as the chance for us to have fun including several of my favorite elements in kink - rope, impact play, and stripping. We wanted to have a slight horror element and with that in mind, I wanted to bring back Sister Francesca from the Embarrassed Naked Nun

I have seen several humiliation themed videos on Kink.com. There are mixed stories about how ethical they are in how they treat models as representation of kink. They showcase a preshoot interview where they negotiate what will be done in the scene and what the safe words are. It's not clear however, if the negotiation being shot is part of the scene itself or an actual negotiation. Kink.com has a lot of Public Disgrace scenes, which sways on the side of humiliation/degredation than embarrassment. I have found myself less into the more degrading aspect of the scene than I enjoy the beginning where the person is stripped of their clothes and acts embarrassed. It was this tone that Violet and I had in mind when we talked about shooting a long scene. I wanted something that would be more kink-focused, but also enjoyable for an Embarrassed and Exposed audience as I get feedback that they are not as interested in the more kink heavy aspects of the genre.

The idea at the time was that my character would be more of a scary type figure. This of course was before we ended up making me a silly, cartoon trope in Shego Stripped to her Tighty Whiteys. My style with an actual humiliation scene is humorous. There was a period where I was a standup comic and what has stayed with me was my ability to roast someone in a teasing/bullying type of humor that works well with embarrassment and humiliation. Admittedly, I myself was nervous about being on camera for such a long time. As someone with my own personal experience with anxiety, perfectionism sometimes spills into that, making me trip up on my words or stutter or become hesitant. I was worried this might show up on camera as I played with Violet. This would definitely disrupt the perfectionist in me with editing and the thought of being so concerned about something not turning out "perfect" that I'd hesitate from posting was a worst-case-scenario fear that I knew I'd have to keep at bay.

 That did not happen however, because Violet and I have played several times before and so I felt comfortable being on camera because we had established trust and care for each other long before that. This is important in kink because when it works, as I think you'll see in this video, the players are fully present in the scene and time flies by because we're not in our heads thinking about "what if" anxieties, we're fully present, and that is what I find fulfilling about kink, when the magic is there, it is truly a mentally transformative experience where you can take on a role you otherwise might not embody in real life, and it gives your mind a sense of healing, purpose, and excitement to create something powerful. 

 In any scene, it is more complex than simply striking someone, tying someone up, or being tied or being hit. It is a risky practice, there is no way there is zero percent chance that harm could be done mentally or physically. That is why, it requires constant communication and constant check in throughout a scene. What you see is an edited video to tell a story, what you don't see is the safe words Violet and I negotiated before a scene, what we agreed would and wouldn't happen in the scene, and adjustments that needed to be made during the scene in terms of how intense things would be. In any scene, at any time, something can change and the previously planned scene might need to change. This can be due to someone's body experiencing pain or discomfort that was not planned or even a psychological trigger that requires ending the scene early. While safe words are one way to minimize risk of harm, sometimes that doesn't always work either. This is why it's also important to observe each other's nonverbal language, their facial expressions, an abrupt silence after they were talking a lot, or even a freeze response. We had to constantly monitor each other's and our own internal response to make sure it was safe to continue playing. The challenge for me was that the mask made it slightly more challenging to observe Violet's reactions, although I kept close watch the entire time while also staying in character.

 Violet did amazing work. Not only did she also have to act in character for the whole scene, she had to do so while in a position that over a long period of time was uncomfortable. The setup we chose was one that Violet felt most comfortable in for sustaining the pose for a long time. yet, even though she felt comfortable, over time, that pose with wrists tied to a hard metal pole while being flogged, caned, and spanked with a crop would add tension and more intense physical effort over time. Having been tied myself with the intent to hold a pose for a long period of time, by the end of ten even twenty minutes can be intense. Your body starts to shake, muscles are tense and you have to constantly check in with your tying partner to let them know if adjustments need to be made. So, big hats off to Violet for being able to sustain that pose, to sustain being spanked all while acting in what was a long-form improvised humiliation scene. There were was actually only once instance where we had to make adjustments to the intensity of the scene but otherwise, what you see is the scene that we shot in one take. A performance like this does not happen easily, but for us it did because of our long-term friendship and experience playing before.

 You may find Punishing the Nun's Hypocrisy a Humiliation Scene different from my other ENF videos. however, we hope you give it a shot and enjoy it as a representation of kink between two close friends who both share a love for celebrating the power of telling a story through rope, canes, floggers, and of course, exposure ;).