Sunday, May 30, 2021

The Immodest Collection: Stories of Exosure and Shame vol 3 is here!

 

Today is the day I'm excited to share with you the cover for the Immodest Collection: Stories of Exposure and Shame Volume 3!. It's been a long journey writing this while also defending my dissertation, but I'm delighted with these three brand SPANKing new enf stories. It will be released on 6/20 for the Summer Solstice. It's a season where many wear little clothing to keep cool but for the women in my stories, they end up losing more clothes than they intended. The stories in this volume took a particular focus on the kinky side, emphasizing play dynamics in addition to my favorite themes of embarrassment from being stripped naked. What do I mean by kinky side? Let's just say there more than one meaning when I say the stories are SPANKing new. To give you another tease, enjoy the summaries for each story below:


Shannon has a wild side, one she embodies when she wears her leopard print onesie. Her partner, Dani, takes her on a camping trip, letting her run free in the great outdoors. The catch: Dani gets to hunt Shannon, putting her dignity on the line when Dani threatens to remove her spots if she is caught.

University professor, Dr. Martin keeps her kinky lifestyle private. As a Domme, she rigorously protects the privacy of her subs. When a fame-hungry vlogger blackmails her, Dr. Martin must relinquish control. Submission sits poorly on her shoulders, so when she gains the upper hand, she wastes no time showing the vlogger the true meaning of humiliation.

Bri took up pole dancing on a whim, but stayed for the hot instructor, KC. A year later, she spends her free time fantasizing about what KC’s strong arms could do to her. But at Bri’s summer party, it’s her pet, Lana, who breaks the ice by revealing a kinky secret that leaves Bri feeling mortified in front of her guests and worst of all, her crush. 

 

Stick around for more teasers! Cover art by Dawné Dominique at DusktilDawn Designs

Tuesday, May 25, 2021

Sohimi Sex Toy Review

 I guess Sohimi really liked my previous review because they wanted me to review a second toy of theirs. Today I'm reviewing the Vibrating Penis Pump. I was hesitant to give this a try because I tend to shy away from things that involve increasing thickness of my penis. I've used cock rings in the past and although they are fun, there have been some minor pain that makes it less enjoyable.

 


 

 

 I was glad to have been proven wrong. The suction from the penis pump didn't seem noticeable at first, but after a few minutes i did feel it fit nice and tight around my cock. I mistakenly forgot to but the ring around the base of the silicone sleeve and thought it did not make a difference. THAT WAS INCORRECT. The ring makes a huge difference. That is where the suction of the pump really takes effect, I could feel it pulling tighter over me. So my first recommendation is test it with your finger just to gauge how powerful the suction is. You can turn it off immediately if it's too much. There's also a second button that stops the suction temporarily so you can adjust to the sensation.

In addition to the suction, the vibration was what i enjoyed the most. It has several different vibration rhythms as well as several different intensities, much like the previous toy. What was nice about the penis pump was it was not as heavy as the other, which meant it allowed me to hold and thrust at my own comfort and pace. This made it more enjoyable for me once I got the right rhythm, I could take my time enjoying each different mode without it slipping off. I'm learning that I like a constant vibration rather than the short bursts. I definitely felt i could last longer using this. For me, this felt closer to mimicking intercourse but I'm also someone who finds pleasure being able to have more control of my own movements. That being said, the automatic vibrator is fun for just a different experience, the intensity in particular. So, I like how both felt but I think in terms of ease of use I'll stick with the penis pump. I also can see myself using the pump as a vibrator without the suction or even without the vibration, so there are many ways you can enjoy this and it's reasonably priced at $53.99. I'm so glad Sohimi helped push me out of my comfort zone. Like the other toy, it comes with a USB cord to recharge and a small tube of lube. It also comes with a nice bag to carry all of it in that makes it easier to transport on say an airplane (have fun watching the reaction of security if you take it as a carry on). 

 So with one week of the National Masturbation Month of May, treat yourself or a partner to one of Sohimi's many vibrating toys and enjoy!

 

Sunday, May 16, 2021

Turn Up The Heat! and a Sohimi Sex Toy Review

 Oof, talk about embarrassment, I'm feeling that way after over a year hiatus in posting. Much of it was due to managing a work/life balance in my final year of my doctoral program, other aspects were emotionally feeling drained from the ongoing accounts of police brutality and also my own management of emotions processing my own internalized racism as a transracial adoptee. Perhaps that will be a post for another time to give it the proper focus and attention. For now I wanted to post a first time for me: My first sex toy review!

How did this happen? It all started when I submitted Privilege to a reader challenge for the month of May (which also happens to the National Masturbation Month;) called the Turn Up The Heat reader challenge. The goal was to showcase indie erotica authors by having participants read a list of erotica, review it, and post it on their challenge board. The prize was MORE erotica AND free toys from Sohimi the company sponsoring the challenge.


 

As I promoted the challenge, Sohimi reached out and asked me to review one of their products. I've been curious about a fleslight type of toy for years and so this felt like the perfect time to try the The Automatic Male Masturbator Cup .

 


 

 

Wow, for a first toy, this came with a LOT of fun features. This version comes with a set of audio noises of moaning. It also comes with a wall mount to prop up so you can use it hands free. I was taken aback by the size of it (it was the length of a large thermos). The inside is a clear vagina-shaped opening that is soft with several bumps inside. It also comes with headphones, a USB charger, and lube. 

It took a bit of trial-and-error but once I got the hang of it it was definitely something I look forward to trying to again. I underestimated the amount of lube needed to penetrate. What first happened was getting my penis partially through and I found that to be a bit frustrating. But, reading some erotica (always a nice way to get in the mood) and a lot of lube used to coat the inside and on myself was what worked out. 

First, the thrusts are INTENSE! I did not need to do a thing, I just lay on my back and held the toy while the thrusting did the work. It has 5 different thrusting modes and with each mode are 6 different frequencies (3 to lessen and 3 to increase the intensity). It takes a moment to adjust, but the intensity of the thrusting starts to feel good the more you just relax and let your fantasies run wild in your mind. I preferred the mode with a constant thrusting motion (some do it in short bursts). I was able to cum with some patience and focus. 

 The second time was where it really knocked it out of the park. For the second, I tried the headphones and listened to the moans and wow did that make a difference. Admittedly, the sounds are not groundbreaking, it's a woman's voice on repeat making some dirty talk. What made it work was combining the overall experience of sex with the sounds of someone else, letting me envision other fantasies (of the naked embarrassed female kind). I got so excited it slipped off! I was frustrated in a good way, and when I slipped it back on I had an amazing orgasm and a sense of joy having found the right settings for me. The other nice part is that it's easy to wash, simply pull out the inside and rinse with water, letting it dry before use again.

I have not tried the toy using the wall mount but that is something I look forward to trying next time. Overall, I'd give it a 4.5 out of 5 stars (Rounding up on Amazon). I don't see this replacing my preferred way to masturbate, but the price for this is the same as a fleshlight, and considering all of the fun additions that come with it (wall mount, moaning sounds) it is definitely worth checking out for yourself or as a gift for someone else. I also appreciate that the company honors privacy. It arrived in a discrete box without any indication it was a sex toy, just the name of the company.

You still have a few weeks to do the TurnUpTheHeat Challenge. You get to win $240 in sex toys and erotica by simply reading and reviewing erotica!!! Don't hesitate, sign up now and win your chance to buy the Automatic masturbator or some of Sohima's other fun toys!